Wednesday, March 21, 2018

Anniversary!

Well, it has snuck up on us and we find ourselves at year 15.  This morning was not really any different than any other.  Hustling and moving kids out the door to school with shoes, socks, toast trailing out the door.  If you would have asked me 15 years ago how I would have invisioned my life, I might have been able to hit on some of the generalities of my life now, but I could never have invisioned the cotidian details that really add the contour, smells and flavor to a life.  Sometimes these are not always pleasant--but at least they make things interesting. 

It is awesome to think we have been together for 15 years and we have managed to pull together a reasonably competent life.  It has taken loads of work and a fair amount of blood, sweat and tears, but again this is what makes up the substance of life.  I guess maybe you can say this is the "dark matter" of life.  It is the bulk of what makes life, yet it is pretty much unseen and unacknowledged. 

The other day Sam got in trouble for doing something he should not have been doing and his response to being disciplined was to say "I am not going to school!"  Well, needless to say I was not that worried because Sam is not in school.  This gives you an idea of the what our kids say when they are trying exercise power in a situation. Pretty much all of the time I do not like to hear this, but one day I may miss it so I am glad I wrote it down. 

We are not problem free in our house by any means and we have arguments, power plays, fights, bites, scratches, hurt feelings, mean words and faces.  However, we also have hugs, kisses, sybillings reading to each other, family home evening, trampoline time, hoops, passes, parks, hikes, hills and meals. 

May the next 15 be even better!  Love you Honey!


Lice infestation.


April Fools!


That hair!


Two year old.


Too small, but classy.


Quite a hike. 


Joaquin at one.


Who's the underdressed one?


Temple wedding.


Goofballs!


Taking a break.


This is Sam.


This is Joaquin.


Hugs.


Call of the wild.


Chocolate


Face towards the sun.


Trampoline time.


Jazz dancer.


Summertime walk.


Watching the Ipad.


Sisters.


Track stars.


Gabe and Joaquin.


Reading books.


Love.


Shauna's mission reunion.


Good kids.


Car ride.


Yellowstone.


Good times. 

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Shauna, Paul, and Joaquin Mayer

This is the Mayer Family blog. This is our attempt to keep a record for ourselves of the happenings of our family. It is also an attempt to make it easier for our family and friends to see pictures and get updates.

Joaquin and Papa play

Joaquin and Papa play
Joaquin and Papa play

Running in the sand

Running in the sand
Running in the sand

Sitting on the sand bench

Sitting on the sand bench
Sitting on the sand bench

big boy

big boy
I'm a big boy now!

bath

bath
Getting ready for my bath with daddy

dad and his hat

dad and his hat
I look cool in dad's hat